Does anyone on Y/A have a loved one Incarcerated??? Or just plain tired of people criticizing??

No, I do not. I'm really sorry you do though. I am glad you are supporting them and still love him/her very much. Hopefully, your loved one will appreciate all of your love toward him/her, and change for the better. Don't worry, I won't judge you or your loved one. We all make mistakes one time or the other. The important thing is that we learn from our mistakes. Hugs.